What are we fighting for: The Fight Beneath the Fight

 A 6-Week Online Couples Workshop

If you keep having the same argument—about parenting, money, tone, intimacy, time, or who’s carrying more—it’s usually not the topic. It’s what’s happening underneath.

 

The Fight Beneath the Fight is a remote, 6-week couples workshop that goes beyond communication scripts. Using an eclectic, evidence-informed approach with Schema Therapy as a central lens, you’ll learn to identify the patterns and emotional triggers driving conflict, understand the deeper needs underneath, and shift from reacting from old pain to responding with clarity, accountability, and emotional safety.

 

You’ll Learn

 

• Why the same fight keeps repeating

• How early experiences and attachment patterns shape triggers

• How schemas (core beliefs) fuel defensiveness, distance, and escalation

• How to recognize your cycle early, de-escalate, and repair

 

 

Details (TBD)

 

• Format: Remote / Online

• Schedule & start date: Coming soon

• Spots: Limited to 5 couples

• Request info: sherryjones.lcsw@gmail.com
   

 

When couples name the pattern beneath the trigger, the relationship stops being the battlefield—and the pattern becomes the problem.